40 Ways To Prioritize Me

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40 Ways To Prioritize Me

For the past 8 years I have been either pregnant or breastfeeding. I have sacrificed my body, some of my sanity and a lot of my individuality. And that’s okay because in the beginning, motherhood can be all consuming and overwhelming and I needed time to find my footing. Looking back, I would do the same thing over again because I can never get that time back with your children and I am glad that I chose the path that I did but it’s time to prioritize me.

One way or the other, motherhood changes everything. The physical part is pretty much a given but it has forever transformed me emotionally, mentally and spiritually. As I get closer to weaning my last baby (insert crying face emoji here), I realize that I will finally get my body back along with a little more time and freedom for myself. I feel like I am entering a new phase of life and instead of fighting to hang on to the pieces of the old me, it’s time for me to fully stand in the woman I have become over the last 8 years.

I am wiser, much more selfless, more courageous and more full of love than I ever imagined I could be. Hey…If that comes at the expense of extra pounds, more stretch marks and darker circles under my eyes…I’ll take it. I have been grappling with comparing this me with the me that I was before kids and that is just a waste of precious time. I am realizing that the most precious commodity that I have these days is time and I don’t want to waste my time wishing for the me I use to be.

Maybe that is just some new agey babble or you can even call it a midlife crisis or whatever the new term is but things are changing around here and I am all here for it. So this year, as I move toward my 40thbirthday, I am embarking on embracing me as I am in this time of my life. So here is a list of 40 ways to prioritize me starting with this hair makeover



  1. Get a hair makeover
  2. Learn to surf
  3. Buy a Blanche Devereaux robe
  4. Attend a yoga retreat
  5. Go on a wine tasting trip
  6. Write and publish a book
  7. take Spanish class
  8. take a photography class
  9. take a pottery class
  10. Meet an idol
  11. Host an public event for moms
  12. Take Salsa dance classes
  13. Take a staycation by myself
  14. Go on a Girl’s Trip
  15. Get a professional headshot
  16. Buy a great swimsuit in my actual size
  17. Take a cooking class from another culture
  18. Have a nude photo shoot
  19. Build a kickass wardrobe
  20. Find a regular workout routine that is enjoyable
  21. Take ballet class
  22. Have a party for myself planned by someone else
  23. Take a meditation class
  24. Complete a 30 day physical challenge
  25. Take a martial arts class
  26. Buy a nice piece of jewelry
  27. Speak at a public event
  28. Get a tattoo
  29. Watch the sunrise on the beach
  30. Get monthly massages
  31. Go to a concert
  32. Buy nice pajamas
  33. Buy a great purse
  34. Buy great jeans
  35. Get a family portrait
  36. Take singing lessons
  37. Get makeup lessons
  38. Tour a working farm
  39. Go to an amusement park with friends
  40. Compete in a Latin Ballroom competition

I will be sharing this journey here and on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. I encourage you to follow along and come up with your own list of ways to prioritize yourself because mommas we need to put ourselves on the front burner. Share your journey using the hashtag #PrioritizeMe on all social media outlets so we can all follow along.

Motherhood can be all consuming and overwhelming and it changes everything. For the past 8 years I have been either pregnant or breastfeeding but it’s time to prioritize me. So here is a list of 40 ways to prioritize me...

Elisha Beach is a stay-at-home mom to four kids and four step-kids…Yes, you read that right—eight kids. She is a wife, home cook, taxi driver, herder of children, terrible housekeeper and founder of The Mom Forum.

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