Any time I played the “Mommy” then, I was happy mommy, sweet mommy, educational mommy, fun mommy or pretty mommy.
Eventually, I was forced to face a question I wasn’t all that comfortable with: “Who are you? Do you even know??”
I use the phrase [fat kid] metaphorically, to sum up all the hang-ups, insecurities and negative views of ourselves that can follow us through life.